Monday, April 19, 2010

20/Apr/2010 - Give them a chance

Last weekend I was invited to join a disabled charity sales. I discovered something totally out from my expectation and must share it here with you.

Read the full story here

Sunday, April 18, 2010

18/Apr/2010 - The Bomoh

In Malaysia we have a lot of spiritual practice. And we will call the them as Bomoh (Shaman). The story below is a true story, happen to my friend aunty. Both the aunty and uncle are a very well educated person.

My friend aunty was diagnosed with ovary cancer - last stage, critical and need to go for operation. But she is so scare to go for the operation. Somehow someone introduce them a Bomoh, who can perform a ritual to remove the infected ovary without any pain or scar. Of course she was like "Holly God thanks for answering my prayers".

After they pay the Bomoh $10,000 plus, he begin the ritual. She lie down, Bomoh sit beside her. Her husband and all family member sit opposite to witness the ritual. Bomoh put his hand to her waist, then pull out a organ that is still dripping with blood.

After the operation, the whole family beleive that the cancerous ovary were "removed". Few days later she can eat well and sleep well. Yippie I m cured... who need doctor...

The happiness don't last very long. 1 day she felt there is pain in her ovary. They try to contact the Bomoh, but not able to reach him. Finally she can't take the pain anymore and go to seek help from the doctor. The doctor took a scan and show to them, the ovary condition is worsening, must go for operation now. WHAT!!!??? But it is removed... Both are speechless, and she went for the surgery. I don't know how is her progress as I hear this from my friend.

No matter how smart are you, people always take advantage when you are in deep shit. No matter what happen, take a good rest. Don't think so much. Just do what you like in these few days, until your emotion is calm down. Then when your mind is calm, you can think well, all kind of possible solution. An overheated car engine can't run long, but if the engine is completely cooled down, it can run again. Same concept.

As for me, I will invite a few friend to go for dinner (which I called it as final good meal). I will keep on socialize with different group people, forgotten about my own problem, until my emotion is calm down. After that is crisis battling planning. Please contact me if you need help on this. This always work for me. All you need to think is the concept of the overheated car engine above. It just same like your brain.

Below is another disgrace of Malaysia bomoh cheating people money, but got exposed my expert from oversea. Btw I m a proud Malaysian because I m living in a decent way. Those are the people who make Malaysian disgrace.

Part 1


Part 2

Thursday, April 8, 2010

08/Apr/2010 - The finale

Everything will come to the end, nothing will be forever. Guess this is the finale of my blog.

I went for a follow up check. The doctor took my body scan. I waited for the result for almost 1 hour. And the result is here...

Like I say nothing will be forever. What is the value of life, if you live in sadness for 99 years. Wouldn't it be good to live happily, even it is just 365 days- everyday is a happy day?

From now on, whether I live only 365 days, 5 yrs or 10 yrs, I will make sure that "Everyday is a happy day".

Cherish life and do charity.



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